Explorerlover wrote
Hey man, this is your braai and it tastes good, so I happy with the adjustments.
We tend to think of it as everyone's braai. Sure, it's at our house, but we're trying to make it as hospitable as possible and beyond ejecting the odd drunken idiot from bothering us all and preventing the braai accessory salesman from bugging you while you're trying to eat, we're not trying to force anyone to do anything they don't want to. We like to think that's what makes it a good braai.