Sigh. Really bad day so I grabbed my guitar

Seventhson · 2011-05-07T22:35:05+00:00

Yes,asked a girl out and she said she had a bf. Kinda made my saturday so bad. So I grabbed my guitar and just played it. Sigh . No I did not play any soft songs but hard thrash. Nothing cheers you up to the sounds of slayer :-[

Seventhson

I guess I am just lonely ?

Averatu

A perfect time to learn the blues man. ☹

Seventhson

Averatu wrote A perfect time to learn the blues man. ☹

Does not make me sad. pisses me off.

Time to do some metal riffs.

Norman86

Maybe its time to log onto your hello cupid internet dating profile ?

aubs1

Seventhson wrote Does not make me sad. pisses me off.
Time to do some metal riffs.

7thson, I think you spend too much time and energy being angry and frustrated. You need to chill, be a bit more relaxed, and perhaps look into some more "sweet" music. People (especially girls) can sense the anger, and it's a put-off.

evolucian

I might have to agree with Aubs on this one...

deefstes

Well spoken Aubs. There is actually nothing attractive or cool about anger or being pissed off.

vic

deefstes wrote Well spoken Aubs. There is actually nothing attractive or cool about anger or being pissed off.

...or metal riffs... ?

deefstes

vic wrote
deefstes wrote Well spoken Aubs. There is actually nothing attractive or cool about anger or being pissed off.
...or metal riffs... ?

:roflmao: :roflmao: :roflmao:
Never has a truer word been spoken...

Seventhson

Hey hey hey.

Metal riffs are awesome >☹ ?

deefstes

Seventhson wrote Hey hey hey.

Metal riffs are awesome >☹ ?

...for scaring away the hot girls.

?

Bob-Dubery

There was a thread not so long ago which ended up with one member believing that she was being picked on and ridiculed because of her particular music tastes. I don't think that was anybody's intent, but I can see how it LOOKED that way.

Let's please try to avoid a repeat here.

Seventhson

X-rated Bob wrote There was a thread not so long ago which ended up with one member believing that she was being picked on and ridiculed because of her particular music tastes. I don't think that was anybody's intent, but I can see how it LOOKED that way.

Let's please try to avoid a repeat here.

Lol No I know they are just teasing. Besides they wish they could shred ?

deefstes

Good point XRB. I wnat to be clear that I'm pulling your leg 7thson, if metal is your thing then have a blast.

I do think that Aubs1's advice above is valuable though, irrespective of the issue of metal music. Anger and a general state of pissed-offness is no attractive and not healthy. You won't improve your chances of bagging the hot chick by investing more energy into being angry and pissed off.

And if I can be allowed to touch on the issue of metal again, while I wouldn't want to discourage you from listening and playing metal, I'd like to encourage you to explore some other styles as well. At the risk of sounding arrogant, I can speak from experience having bagged a couple of girls through songwriting and/or serenade. I doubt any metal riff would have done the trick on any of those occasions though.

StephenG

X-rated Bob wrote There was a thread not so long ago which ended up with one member believing that she was being picked on and ridiculed because of her particular music tastes. I don't think that was anybody's intent, but I can see how it LOOKED that way.

Let's please try to avoid a repeat here.

i am a bit confused about the applicattion of this , shall we say, gentle warning..

is this a gentle warning to 7thson to NOT say his brand of music is awesome..

or is it a gentle warning to deefstes for him to not say that brand of music is NOT awesome..

or is this a gentle warning that no one is allowed to voice any opinion about what they feel on the differet brands of music??

deefstes

StephenG wrote i am a bit confused about the applicattion of this , shall we say, gentle warning..

is this a gentle warning to 7thson to NOT say his brand of music is awesome..

or is it a gentle warning to deefstes for him to not say that brand of music is NOT awesome..

or is this a gentle warning that no one is allowed to voice any opinion about what they feel on the differet brands of music??

I think it's a gentle warning against posters like me and Vic who take the mickey regarding 7thson's metal riffs, and rightly so. I was assuming 7thson would know we're just taking the mickey but I could have been wrong on that score and 7thson might have taken offense. Fortunately he has indicated now that he understood it as a joke.

In the end, I don't think we should make too big a fuss over this issue because, after all, we all know metal is crap... (*runs for cover*)

IceCreamMan

deefstes wrote Well spoken Aubs. There is actually nothing attractive or cool about anger or being pissed off.

The smell of testosterone is intoxicating to women .....

Young men have it in abundance....so it is so let it be.

7thson ,again thanks for posting this experience .,.... i have said it afore an will say it again..i enjoy yr posts.

Bob-Dubery

StephenG wrote i am a bit confused about the applicattion of this , shall we say, gentle warning..

is this a gentle warning to 7thson to NOT say his brand of music is awesome..

or is it a gentle warning to deefstes for him to not say that brand of music is NOT awesome..

or is this a gentle warning that no one is allowed to voice any opinion about what they feel on the differet brands of music??

This is a GUITAR forum. Not a blues forum, or a folk-rock forum, or a heavy metal forum, or.....

All guitarists should feel welcome here - irrespective of their tastes or skill levels, so we shouldn't be casting aspersions about one form or music or another.

I'm sure it's all been light hearted in it's intent so far, but we have seen in the past how criticism (with or without spiteful intent) of brands and genres and reactions to those slurs (actual or perceived) can get way out of hand and tempers can rise. It does the forum no good, so I'd rather sound a cautionary note now than have to put out fires later.

To address your questions from another perspective, you should love whatever music you love and not feel reluctant to say you love it. I feel quite strongly about this because my tastes are real minority stuff on this forum. I don't feel picked on because of it, but I am aware that there's a whole world of music out there and nobody is into all of it.

A useful analogy might be soccer. Trouble doesn't start because one person shouts "Yay Chelsea!" Trouble may start when another person, supporting another team shouts out "Chelsea are a bunch of *$!@# !".

Seventhson

IceCreamMan wrote
deefstes wrote Well spoken Aubs. There is actually nothing attractive or cool about anger or being pissed off.
The smell of testosterone is intoxicating to women .....

Young men have it in abundance....so it is so let it be.

7thson ,again thanks for posting this experience .,.... i have said it afore an will say it again..i enjoy yr posts.

Thanks man.

And as for metal scaring females,Depends on the females choice of music. ?

StephenG

Seventhson wrote
IceCreamMan wrote
deefstes wrote Well spoken Aubs. There is actually nothing attractive or cool about anger or being pissed off.
The smell of testosterone is intoxicating to women .....

Young men have it in abundance....so it is so let it be.

7thson ,again thanks for posting this experience .,.... i have said it afore an will say it again..i enjoy yr posts.
Thanks man.

And as for metal scaring females,Depends on the females choice of music. ?

ask Hammeron out on a date. ?

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