Seventhson wrote
Nope not going to happen. She wants to wait nine months before she goes on a date with me :'(
so I said no and that was the end of that
It might have done you well to say yes to that for a few reasons.
1. in 9 months time you could have a date...
2. During that 9 months you would be interacting with a female of the species and be SEEN interacting with a female of the species. If you are only ever seen alone, or with the same crowd you don't come across as appealing to the social senses and then girls don't want to socialise and you won't make any more friends.
3. she might have friends you would meet who would date you in less time...
Don't wait for your ship to come in, Swim out to meet it.