Thanks for that as well Rob. Here are some of the links I have received - I still have to get to them but they look pretty good as well:
Donovan pointed me to Joomla ( this is apparently a Content management System). He reckons it is nifty and needs very little CSS knowledge - he built some sites with Joomla (need to ask him if I can post) It'll be nice for you to see the end result.
http://imod.co.za/ (A Cape Town Blog by Chris M) - this I haven't had a chance to look at but a friend of mine assures me that this guy is very clued up and can be written to and asked things as you go ...
Then there's these that really look good as well:
http://www.w3schools.com/
(educate yourself for free)
http://www.webmonkey.com/
(at first sight looks a bit daunting - but the goodies are all in there)
And then there's Google Apps which Attila has helped me to get onto - I have just discovered an automated website building app in there! I actually can't believe it! But with stuff where it's all automated I worry about a situation where you need to modify something ...
There's so much stuff to absorb and I guess each person eventually finds the way they feel most comfortable with.
I think I need to ask one REALLY important question a week (like this week's question would be: 'where do I start?)
and then I like to go figure for as far as I can get, and that means really half killing myself in the process! ?
Good luck - keep me posted as well ...