PeteM wrote:
Now I get it. So you're not a man if you cry?
Yes absolutely ?
Yeah men cry, and women cry too, often far more than men do. The big problem is when you produce a two hour long documentary of one of the biggest if not the biggest band in metal sitting around crying...
So in short you can be a man and cry, you shouldn't be so damn public with it however. Same goes for women before I get accused of saying they cry in public all the time or something silly like that...
X-rated Bob wrote:
Chad Adam Browne wrote:
Nope - They sat around talking about their feelings and whining alot...It reminded me of Bold & The Beautiful or something along that line. I'm sure that no doubt people are going to continue trying to push this to turn it into some pointless debate about a whole lot of things that are completely off from what I meant while no doubt trying to frame me as some sort of sexist/bigot/neo-nazi for all I care, in this particular case they all deserved to have a man-card removed - it was feminine, some of them even cried...
Words have generally accepted meanings, if you start talking about how so-and-so came over like a fag then it's not at all unreasonable to conclude that you are calling him gay AND taking the position that there's something not OK, something less than manly, something sissy about being gay. If you tell us that you laughed at rape scenes in a documentary movie then not unreasonably people will draw an inference from that as well.
There's no need to guess at motives, and it shouldn't be incumbent upon the reader to try to figure out what words allegedly mean in the circles that you move in.
ummm...why does everything always have to be drawn out to an unnecessary length?...
Yet again, there's nothing wrong with being gay...Personally I think this is just being pushed to a level that's getting tedious now, it doesn't even have anything to do with the main topic. I was stating why I don't like Metalicca and now suddenly we're sitting around accusing me of being homophobic/xenophobic. In truth I nothing gay people - I feel as neutral about them as I do every other demographic and will therefore rip them off just as badly as I do every other demographic (heck I rip myself off constantly). As for that
documentary with people getting raped - it wasn't a documentary it was just a cheap shitty b grade horror/gore film. I'm sure the director only started talking about the statement he was trying to make after it got banned in a shit load of countries and he needed to try and defend it. It was as funny as hell, because it was so overboard and cheap.
It would help if the reader didn't choose to nit-pick the conversation and try and somehow create an image of the poster that seems to play into their argument :? Should I rather use the term
camp from now on? It has the exact same meaning and yet is somehow more accepted in
civilised conversation...
